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What Is My Attachment Style in Relationships?

Why do some people constantly seek reassurance in relationships while others instinctively pull away as soon as a bond becomes too close? Attachment theory helps explain these differences. This test assesses two key dynamics: anxiety about rejection and avoidance of emotional closeness. Your answers will show how these two dimensions shape your natural reactions in a relationship and which of the four attachment styles best describes you. The test takes about 6 minutes.

How this test is built

The questionnaire consists of 16 statements based on psychological attachment theory. Your answers are used to assess your levels of anxiety and avoidance, and their combination indicates one of four attachment styles: secure, anxious, avoidant, or disorganised. This is an educational self-reflection tool designed to help you understand your relationship patterns; it is not a substitute for professional psychological or psychotherapeutic advice.

More on this topic:Attachment Styles in Relationships: 4 Types and How They Shape Your Bond

Questions about “Attachment styles”

What is an attachment style test?

It is a 16-question self-assessment based on attachment theory. It evaluates anxiety about rejection and avoidance of emotional closeness—the two dimensions that shape how you behave in relationships.

Which attachment styles can the test identify?

Four styles: secure, anxious, avoidant, and disorganised. Your result depends on how you respond to closeness and the fear of rejection.

Is an attachment style a diagnosis?

No. It is an educational psychological model for self-understanding. It describes common relationship patterns but does not replace a professional assessment.

Why do some people seek reassurance while others withdraw?

Different combinations of anxiety and avoidance influence whether you seek immediate reassurance from your partner under stress or protect yourself by withdrawing from closeness.

Where can I learn more about attachment?

The related article explains in more detail how these patterns develop and affect everyday communication.

Is the test free, and how long does it take?

Yes. The test and results are free, with no registration required. The 16 questions take about 6 minutes.

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